Your relationship with others begins with your relationship with yourself ✨

April 5, 2017

Today I had a very interesting session with a wonderful woman from US. The topic was relationships.

Her partner follows Hinduism and invited her to one of their festivals. She wasn’t interested and didn’t want to go. When she said no, she received a dry “ok” in response and began to worry about the future of their relationship.

Her dilemma was this: should she adapt to her partner’s interests and sacrifice her own, or should she stay true to herself, keep her individuality, and continue the relationship in that way?

We discovered that she was afraid of losing him—that if she didn’t adjust to his interests, desires, and suggestions, their relationship might end.

Together we worked on the thought: “He won’t want to be with me anymore.”

When she believed this thought, she lost herself. She struggled to say no, didn’t listen to her own needs, wasn’t honest with herself or with her partner, and lived in fear—imagining future scenarios where she was left alone.

But without that thought, she felt free, calm, harmonious, happy, true to herself, and more open and genuine in her relationship.

She realized that every time she adapted out of fear of losing him, she actually lost herself—and that inner emptiness was far more painful.

By questioning this thought and a few others, she found greater strength, peace, harmony, and alignment within herself. She realized that when she listens to herself first and stays true to who she is, she can create more honest, fulfilling, and high-quality relationships ✨❤️✨.

The Work of Byron Katie is so powerful 😍💛☀️✨ It helps us first fix our relationship with ourselves—and then that naturally reflects in our relationships with others, especially in our private lives.

For me personally, relationships used to be one of my biggest weaknesses. Today, they’ve become one of my greatest strengths ✨😍✨. That’s the power of working on yourself—it changes everything ✨☀️✨

If you feel ready to improve the quality of your relationships and bring them to a whole new level—where you are true to yourself, where you feel peace, harmony, and inner fullness—I’d be honored to support you ✨😍🌈✨.

💌 You can book your session directly through this page ✨

✨ Remember: your relationship with others begins with your relationship with yourself ✨

With love,
Tina 💛☀️✨