When The Work Transforms the Workplace ✨

So, whose company/organization should I bring The Work into? 😀😀😍😍😍
Who wants their employees to be trained?

Today, one of my program participants did The Work on her boss — and here are the results and realizations she shared 😍😍😍 With her permission, I’m sharing them with you ☀️☀️☀️

#1 Thought:

“I’m angry with my boss because he doesn’t pay attention to me and doesn’t treat me warmly.”

➡ From the questions, in that moment I become:
Uninteresting, bitter (irritated), conflict-oriented, unaware, unbalanced, incorrect, fearful, harsh in my responses to him, I take it out on others, I lose my composure, anxious, quick-tempered.

First Turnaround + Three Proofs

“I’m inattentive toward myself.”
Because:
✔ I want him to give me attention.
✔ I no longer belong to myself and value other people’s opinions more.
✔ I’m in a bad mood and irritated.

Second Turnaround

“I’m inattentive toward him.”
Because:
✔ He’s inattentive toward me.
✔ I’m just as principled as he is.
✔ I can’t stand him.

Third Turnaround

“He is attentive.”
Because:
✔ Given his position, he is fairly attentive to employees.
✔ He greets all staff members without exception.
✔ He loves his family.

#Realization 😇

Who would I be without this thought?

I realize that I’m the one responsible for feeling he is inattentive to me — in reality, he’s attentive enough. I am the one being inattentive toward myself, not him toward me.

I don’t value my abilities properly, and I allow negative thoughts to live inside me and influence how I see others. If I had looked at this situation more calmly, positively, and without problems, I might have seen him as attentive. But I didn’t notice or realize any of this before.

I used to smile out of obligation. Now I smile because I understand myself. Oh my God — I did it! 🌞🌞🌞⭐⭐🌈👌

I am my own psychologist. I love you, my dear self 😍😍

I am someone who doesn’t need anyone’s attention to be happy, free, confident, and harmonious. 👍💥🌟💞

Why would I need someone else’s warmth and attention when it’s limitless inside me already? ✔✔🌞

And why should anyone be obligated to please me, or I to please them? If I feel joy, I naturally radiate love without expecting anything in return.

Other people’s attention is not necessary for me, because even without it I can be positive, alive, and smiling. Their presence isn’t what I need for positive energy or love.

What is essential is that I fill myself with positive, supportive thoughts so I remain in harmony. 💖✔💡💞🌟”

Isn’t that powerful? 😍😍😍

With love.
Tina 💛☀️✨